#1: The Conscious Universe: Insights from Dr. Eben Alexander III, NYT Bestselling Author and Neurosurgeon

#1: The Conscious Universe: Insights from Dr. Eben Alexander III, NYT Bestselling Author and Neurosurgeon

The Conscious Universe: Insights from Dr. Eben Alexander III

In this enlightening episode of Broken Beautiful Me - Stories of Hope, Gratitude & Resilience, co-hosted by Kelly Buckley and Tara LaFon Gooch, host of the GRASP Confidence podcast, we delve into the profound experiences and insights of Dr. Eben Alexander III.

Dr. Alexander, a former neurosurgeon and New York Times bestselling author, shares his life-altering experience of surviving a near-death experience (NDE) that forever transformed his understanding of consciousness, life after death, and the mysteries of the universe.

Dr. Alexander's bestselling books—Proof of Heaven, The Map of Heaven, and Living in a Mindful Universe—have inspired millions to reconsider their beliefs about the afterlife and the interconnectedness of all things. His NDE challenges the traditional view of death, opening up new possibilities for understanding the conscious universe and the infinite nature of existence.

In this episode, we dive deep into the profound questions surrounding the afterlife, life beyond the physical body, and the bridge between science and spirituality. Dr. Alexander, with his unique combination of a medical background and spiritual insight, helps listeners navigate the complexities of consciousness, offering a transformative perspective on life, death, and the purpose of existence.

This conversation offers hope and inspiration, particularly for those struggling with grief, loss, or questions about the meaning of life. Whether you're a spiritual seeker, someone curious about NDEs, or looking for comfort during difficult times, this episode provides deep insights into the nature of reality and the possibilities that lie beyond the physical world.

Join Kelly Buckley and Tara LaFon Gooch for this eye-opening dialogue that is sure to expand your understanding of the universe and forever change the way you think about life, death, and consciousness.

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Hello, everyone.

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My name is Tara Lafon Gooch,

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and I'm the host of Grasp

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Confidence Podcast,

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and I have a special

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co-host with me today.

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Please introduce yourself.

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Hello, I am Kelly Buckley,

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and I am the host of Broken Beautiful Me,

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a podcast that tells

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stories about gratitude, hope,

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and resilience.

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And together,

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we are interviewing one of

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the most influential people in

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that really has one of the

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most incredible stories

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I've ever heard of.

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That's for sure.

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Kelly, don't you think so?

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Oh,

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I am so excited to talk to Dr. Alexander.

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I think it's going to be just remarkable.

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I have so many thoughts.

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Yes.

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So we're doing this special

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show together because we're

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going to pull elements of

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personal development,

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elements of spirituality,

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and contemplating existence itself.

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This is a very deep episode, everyone.

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So thank you so much for tuning in.

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And I want to introduce our next guest.

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Dr. Eben Alexander III is a

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former neurosurgeon and

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bestselling author.

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known for his near-death

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experience during a coma

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caused by bacterial meningitis in 2008.

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His experience detailed in A

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Proof of Heaven,

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a neurosurgeon's journey

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into the afterlife,

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challenged his scientific

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beliefs and led him to

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explore the nature of

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consciousness and the afterlife.

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Dr. Alexander now advocates

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for a deeper understanding

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of consciousness and the

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eternal soul through his

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writing and speaking engagements.

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Dr. Alexander, welcome to the show.

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Well, Tara and Kelly,

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it's great to be here today.

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I'm looking forward to our conversation.

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Wonderful.

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Kelly,

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I would love for you to start us off

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and let's pick his brain a

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little bit because I just

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want to know more about

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this incredible story.

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Kelly,

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I know you have a fantastic question.

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Okay.

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So I just,

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what I wanted to do was to begin

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for our listeners who may

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not be aware of your book

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or have read your book.

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And, you know,

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the experiences that you had

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that led to the view.

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Okay, well,

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I'll give you a brief kind of

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thumbnail vision of it all.

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At the time this happened,

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I was 54 years old,

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had spent my life honing a

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very scientific worldview.

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and thought that physicalism

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or materialism was the correct answer.

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That is that the entire

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universe just consists of

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the physical stuff that we

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can measure and that we consist of,

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et cetera,

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and that it all follows the

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laws of physics, chemistry, and biology.

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The problem is that sooner or later,

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you run into a big issue in

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trying to explain the

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nature of consciousness and

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free will with that model.

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especially because

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consciousness is much

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broader than just our

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little kind of mental phenomenon.

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This is something that's

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revealed in near-death experiences.

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Now,

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the reason my near-death experience

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was so important to the

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scientific community,

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and that's where very much

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of my support really lies

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in sharing this story,

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is because of the depth of my coma.

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You know, the Glasgow Coma Scales, the...

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extreme illness that and

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when you look at the

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medical parameters and they

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are corroborated in a

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medical case report so not

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just what I told in the

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book proof of heaven where

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I gave a lot of my medical

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details but also a medical

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case report by three

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doctors not involved in my

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care but fascinated by my

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recovery because it was

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unprecedented in the

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medical literature and

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that's really the value of

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my particular case to the

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nde literature is for me to have

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Any kind of phenomenal

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experience is really

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inexplicable because there

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was so much damage to all

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lobes of my brain.

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And modern neuroscience

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feels that the neocortex,

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the outer surface of the brain,

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is what really does all the

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human part of our consciousness.

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And that's why meningitis is

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such a perfect model for human death,

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especially an extremely

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severe case of

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gram-negative bacterial

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meningitis like I had.

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You know,

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there was no way for my brain to

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harbor any kind of dream or

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hallucination.

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That much is pretty much

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agreed upon by reviewing

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the medical records.

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So where did that

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extraordinary experience come from?

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And likewise, the recovery.

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You know,

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it truly is unprecedented to be

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so sick from this type of meningitis,

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be in deep coma for a week,

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and then end up making a full recovery,

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which happened to me over

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about two months after

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awakening from coma.

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And that extraordinary

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recovery demands an explanation.

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In fact,

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when the peer review editors for

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the journal challenged the

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three authors who wrote the report,

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they were not involved in my care,

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but fascinated by that recovery and said,

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how do you explain this?

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It's unprecedented.

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They said, well,

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this miraculous recovery is

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because he had a near death experience.

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And they knew of other cases

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like Anita Morjani, who wrote the book,

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Daring to Be Me.

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And she had an advanced

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stage four lymphoma.

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And that lymphoma just

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disappeared after her

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profound near-death experience,

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a deep spiritual journey.

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Likewise, Dr. Mary C. Neal,

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orthopedic surgeon,

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wrote a book called To Heaven and Back.

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And she had a profound NDE

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during a kayaking accident

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in Chile where she had an

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over 30-minute warm water drowning.

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uh was brought to the

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surface dead and yet she

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ended up making a full

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recovery she also had a

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rich spiritual journey so

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the big message to all of

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us from a scientific

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perspective is that this

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reveals something about our

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soul and about our our free

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will that goes far beyond

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materialist uh

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misconceptions uh and in fact uh

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Some of my greatest support

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has come from scientists

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who heard my story,

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have reviewed the medical details,

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and realize that this all

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points to a much grander

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universe than the

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simplistic and kind of false,

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bleak and paltry fiction of

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materialism that pretends

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that the brain creates consciousness.

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And that when we die, you know,

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consciousness stops.

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It doesn't.

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There's a tremendous body of evidence,

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as we discuss in our third book,

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Living in a Mindful Universe,

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evidence for the reality of

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soul and continuation of

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conscious awareness after

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permanent bodily death.

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And this is where the

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scientific community is

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really gonna help elevate

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and change this world.

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Because for the scientists

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who take all this seriously

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and study these cases,

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they indicate something far

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more profound about the

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nature of consciousness,

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about our relationship with the universe.

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Our whole sense of meaning

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and purpose in this

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lifetime is dramatically

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supported in a very

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positive fashion by

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acknowledging that the

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brain is not the creator of

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consciousness.

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but is simply a filter,

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a transceiver that allows

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us to connect to a

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primordial universal consciousness,

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to that God mind that so

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many near-death

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experiencers come to

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witness during their NDE.

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And they come back to this

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world knowing there's

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nothing to fear about death.

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that in fact it's not the

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end of our relationship with loved ones,

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that our souls continue on.

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So there's a tremendous

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amount of comfort that can

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come from this enhanced

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view that admits to the

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data as opposed to denying

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and debunking it,

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which is what materialist

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science has done for so long.

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And I'll also just put into

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this discussion

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that quantum physics,

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which is right at the heart

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of some of the deepest

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mystery of the last century

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of scientific investigation,

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is right at the core of

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this intersection of the

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physical world and the mental realm.

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And it shows really the

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primacy of the mental.

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That's why that Nobel Prize

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in 2022 for entanglement,

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the apparent connection of

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subatomic particles beyond space and time,

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is so important.

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in coming to a deeper

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understanding of the

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brain-mind connection and

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the nature of reality.

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And it's a view that greatly

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honors consciousness as

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kind of unified and primordial.

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And that is something that

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all of our minds are part of.

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This is a tremendous

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scientific revolution.

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It's of tremendous benefit

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uh because it it truly

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supports that we're

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spiritual beings in a

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spiritual universe the

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reality of soul the

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importance of the binding

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force of love which is an

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undeniable uh core issue uh

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revealed by near-death

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experiences shared death

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experiences which are just

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like near death but happen

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to uh people who are

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perfectly healthy like a

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loved one who might be a

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thousand miles away so at

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any rate that's kind of a

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a long-winded answer to your question,

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but the bottom line is my

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experience and the serious

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scientific investigation of

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these kinds of phenomena

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has greatly expanded our

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knowing of the nature of reality.

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And it's a reality that's

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far more comforting to the

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individual because it opens

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up the grand possibilities

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of free will and eternity

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of soul and of our soul relationships.

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uh and for this you can

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never forget gratitude

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because every breath is an

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incredible gift and that's

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one thing I've come to

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realize in my daily

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meditations uh you know I

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meditate an hour to a day

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using sacred acoustics form

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of binaural beat brainwave

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entrainment but all of this

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is about spiritual growth

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that each and every one of

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us has the power to pursue

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because we're all conscious

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sentient beings uh and this

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revolution is just in the

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nick of time because the

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bleak and paltry fiction of

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materialism and that false

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sense of separation has led

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us into a kind of a dark

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place in human development

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and it's really time to awaken

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these much grander

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possibilities of

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unification and the binding

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force of love and that we

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have shared meaning and

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purpose in our lives wow

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well you're speaking both

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kellyanne's language uh

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first of all especially

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with gratitude that is

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something that we are both

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uh practitioners of we like

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to consider ourselves

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teachers of gratitude

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Um, and I was,

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I'm on my third book and I'm

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going to be talking a lot

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about gratitude and the

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spirituality of it too, and how that it,

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it really bridges the

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connection with God.

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It's an, it's a prayer.

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It's a continuous prayer and practice.

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that brings you into that

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same energy as the divine.

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And it's so powerful, Eben,

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what you said there.

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And I'm wondering, you know,

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from a personal development perspective,

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what you said as well about

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the eternal soul and so much possibility,

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so much purpose that we

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have and potential that we all have,

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don't you think?

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Well,

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I think that is really gets right to

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the core of the issue,

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because if you truly follow

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our conventional scientific worldview,

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you would scoff at anyone

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who claims to have free will.

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And the mistake they make is they think,

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oh, well,

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we're all just physical beings

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in this physical universe

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that we can measure.

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And this thing we call

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consciousness must just be

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the result of the electron

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fluxes and chemical

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reactions in the brain.

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But they're all just

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following the laws of physics, chemistry,

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and biology,

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which really leaves no place

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whatsoever for free will.

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And the mistake they're

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making is thinking that we

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have access to some fundamental reality

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in this world.

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And that's why that is in

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the theater of space and

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time along the lines of

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what science has studied

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for centuries and tried to make sense of.

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And what they failed to

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acknowledge is what we're

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actually experiencing is a

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very heavily filtered

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version of some reality.

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And yet,

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one of the deepest lessons of

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quantum physics that has

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vexed the scientific

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community for the better

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part of a century and is

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only now finally at a point

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where we're getting to some

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kind of resolution and understanding

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is the concept of

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consciousness as being fundamental.

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That is,

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this phenomenal witnessing we have,

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and our interaction with

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the phenomenology of our

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mental experience is what

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actually drives the way the universe goes,

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because it's all fundamentally mental,

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not fundamentally material.

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And the material or physical universe is

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it emerges from the mental.

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And this is one of the most

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important ingredients of

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understanding why that

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Nobel Prize in 2022 for entanglement

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of subatomic particles was so critical.

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Now,

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there are many quantum physicists who

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simply will say that

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there's going to be some

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other kind of mechanistic

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material explanation for entanglement.

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And yet they obviously just

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haven't studied consciousness enough.

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Because once you study consciousness,

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especially all the evidence

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for non-local consciousness,

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like remote viewing, like telepathy.

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Read Guillaume Playfair's

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book on twin telepathy.

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You'll find more than 35% of

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identical twins have very

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powerful telepathic experiences.

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One twin might touch a hot stove.

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The other twin can be a

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thousand miles away and

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feels pain and develops a blister.

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Now,

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those are real phenomena when you

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study them.

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Now, people will say, well,

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I haven't had telepathy,

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so it can't be real.

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Well, when you study it scientifically,

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you'll find telepathy is a

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very real phenomenon.

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And if you open your belief system,

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you'll soon start to find

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that you have the powers of

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telepathic communication with others,

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too.

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So...

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Then you have remote viewing,

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which is probably one of

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the most widely supported

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kind of scientifically

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studied aspects of

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non-local consciousness.

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You've heard of the psychic

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spy programs of remote

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viewers being able to

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discern military

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intelligence across the globe.

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I mean, some of the remote viewers,

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for example, Ingo Swann,

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was able to remote view the

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blue ring of Jupiter back in 1973,

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six years before the

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Voyager spacecraft went by

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Jupiter and imaged the blue

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ring of Jupiter.

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So a remote viewing is a

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very powerful technique for

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accessing knowledge.

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And as Jessica Utz,

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the head of the American

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Statistical Association said,

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said in her presidential address in 2015,

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remote viewing, telepathy, precognition,

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these things have been

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proven beyond any reasonable doubt.

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If they weren't so sensitive

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because they suggest the

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reality of a spiritual

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universe and of a universal consciousness,

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they would have been

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admitted by science to

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being real long time ago.

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And yet they hit a touch

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point because we've had

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such a conflict in our

00:15:36
culture over centuries

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between some form of

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spirituality or maybe a

00:15:40
religion and science and

00:15:43
scientific investigations.

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But in the 20th and early 21st century,

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we finally found the

00:15:49
evidence that consciousness

00:15:51
truly is something

00:15:52
fundamental and not just

00:15:53
derivative from the material.

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And that the brain seems to

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be serving more as a filter

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or transceiver that allows

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consciousness to express as

00:16:01
a little eddy current of

00:16:03
that primordial mind.

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And yet when we die,

00:16:06
we reunite with that primordial mind.

00:16:10
That's what near-death experience is,

00:16:12
life reviews,

00:16:13
your entire life flashing

00:16:14
before your eyes, birth to death,

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everything in between,

00:16:17
simultaneously presented,

00:16:20
and not just as memories,

00:16:21
but as reliving of the events.

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And the other important

00:16:25
thing to say about life reviews,

00:16:27
and this is not just from my experience,

00:16:29
but from Bruce Grayson, MD,

00:16:34
university of virginia and

00:16:36
he's written on more than

00:16:36
700 life reviews in his

00:16:39
extensive database on

00:16:42
on near-death experiences

00:16:44
and reports that something

00:16:45
like 74% see a life review

00:16:50
as from the perspective of

00:16:51
everybody involved.

00:16:53
That's why it's like the

00:16:55
golden rule written into

00:16:56
the fabric of the universe.

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Because if you've handed out

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a lot of pain and suffering

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to other people in your life review,

00:17:02
you get on the receiving

00:17:04
end of that kind of

00:17:05
thinking and behavior.

00:17:06
And if it's very painful to others,

00:17:08
you get to feel that pain.

00:17:10
So the life review really is

00:17:12
treat others as you would

00:17:13
like to be treated because

00:17:14
in the life review,

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you're going to feel what it feels like.

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who have treated people the

00:17:19
way you lived your life.

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And that's why it serves as

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a gentle course correction

00:17:24
to gently nudge us towards

00:17:26
love and compassion and kindness, mercy,

00:17:29
acceptance, and of course,

00:17:30
never forget gratitude.

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These are the main

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ingredients that are

00:17:34
suggested by near-death experiences.

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And now that the scientific community

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is taking them very

00:17:40
seriously as a real aspect

00:17:43
of human existence,

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we're coming up with much

00:17:46
better models of how it all works.

00:17:47
And for any of your audience

00:17:49
who want to see the

00:17:51
indisputable scientific

00:17:53
proof of the reality of the

00:17:55
afterlife and of reincarnation,

00:17:57
because that is a giant part of it all,

00:17:59
go to bigelowinstitute.org.

00:18:02
You will find 29 essays that

00:18:05
were written in 2021 in an essay contest.

00:18:08
And they all were written by

00:18:10
scientists who had at least

00:18:11
five years experience

00:18:13
studying the afterlife issue.

00:18:15
And you will find overwhelming evidence

00:18:17
for the scientific

00:18:19
validation of continuation

00:18:21
of conscious awareness

00:18:22
after permanent bodily

00:18:23
death at bigelowinstitute.org.

00:18:26
Tremendous amount of information.

00:18:27
Of course, our third book,

00:18:29
Living in a Mindful Universe,

00:18:30
covers a lot of similar

00:18:32
material and goes even

00:18:34
further in terms of

00:18:35
integrating it all into a

00:18:37
model that works to explain

00:18:39
the nature of reality,

00:18:41
of eternity of soul,

00:18:44
and that we're truly

00:18:45
spiritual beings in a spiritual universe.

00:18:49
Amazing.

00:18:50
Kelly,

00:18:51
I know you have a burning question

00:18:52
that you're dying to ask

00:18:55
him about the life review, right?

00:18:57
I can feel it.

00:18:58
It's interesting.

00:18:59
So the origin of my work is

00:19:03
I work with a group.

00:19:05
I actually started doing

00:19:06
that after the loss of my son, Stephen,

00:19:08
in 2009.

00:19:10
And that year,

00:19:12
I call it the most awake year of my life.

00:19:17
because I felt connected to

00:19:18
something that I had not

00:19:19
experienced before.

00:19:22
And, um, as I was reading the material, um,

00:19:26
I realized that I had

00:19:27
written something about that life review.

00:19:31
Um,

00:19:31
it would call it God's special real

00:19:34
love film.

00:19:35
And I, and I said, you know,

00:19:36
you kind of go into this

00:19:37
theater and you're

00:19:38
presented with how you have

00:19:41
lived your life and the

00:19:43
cutting room floor,

00:19:45
is where you missed an

00:19:46
opportunity to love someone,

00:19:48
or you missed an

00:19:49
opportunity to forgive someone.

00:19:52
And it's just, I have to say,

00:19:54
I'm so thankful for you

00:19:56
because it's validating for

00:19:57
me that as I was writing that,

00:19:59
I felt I knew it was true.

00:20:02
I knew that that was the truth.

00:20:06
And I always say that I was

00:20:07
just the typist in that first year,

00:20:09
you know, as I was breathing.

00:20:11
But I was so thankful for

00:20:15
the wisdom that came with that.

00:20:17
So the life review,

00:20:20
what can you say to people

00:20:22
about how they can think

00:20:25
about their own life review

00:20:26
without actually

00:20:27
experiencing any of that?

00:20:30
Well, I will tell you that my wife,

00:20:33
my partner in all this work,

00:20:34
the co-author of that book,

00:20:35
Living the Mindful Universe, Karen Newell,

00:20:38
has often reminded me of

00:20:40
the daily review.

00:20:41
You know, why save it?

00:20:44
For the end of your life.

00:20:45
And this is something that's

00:20:47
a very natural result, for example,

00:20:49
of meditation,

00:20:50
of regular meditation or

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centering prayer.

00:20:52
For me,

00:20:53
centering prayer and meditation are

00:20:54
one the same thing.

00:20:56
I use a very powerful tool

00:20:57
in the form of sacred acoustics,

00:20:59
binaural beat brainwave entrainment.

00:21:02
We explain a lot of that in the book,

00:21:04
Living in a Mindful Universe,

00:21:06
about how this is such a

00:21:07
powerful mode for helping

00:21:09
to liberate your conscious

00:21:10
awareness from the little ego mind.

00:21:13
Important to point out that

00:21:14
that little voice in your

00:21:15
head is not your consciousness.

00:21:18
I love how Michael Singer in his book,

00:21:19
The Untethered Soul,

00:21:21
he calls that voice in your head,

00:21:22
the annoying roommate.

00:21:24
That's very, very important to get.

00:21:27
That is not your consciousness.

00:21:28
Your consciousness is your

00:21:30
awareness of those thoughts.

00:21:32
But in fact,

00:21:33
that awareness has access to

00:21:36
much grander aspects of self.

00:21:39
And I'm sorry for your loss,

00:21:42
but you're pointing out a beautiful,

00:21:43
beautiful

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aspect of that kind of

00:21:48
tragedy of losing a loved

00:21:50
one is that often we are

00:21:51
then gifted with some form

00:21:53
of after-death communication,

00:21:55
a great clarity that their

00:21:57
soul is still here and is

00:21:59
alive in the here and now.

00:22:01
And it's not just wishful thinking.

00:22:03
That's the important thing.

00:22:04
There's so many examples of

00:22:06
people getting very real

00:22:09
and important information.

00:22:10
For example, health information,

00:22:14
I know a colleague of ours, Larry Burke,

00:22:16
has written a book on premonitory dreams.

00:22:22
And his book addressed just breast cancer,

00:22:24
I believe, was the focus of it.

00:22:26
But a number of cases where

00:22:29
people had premonitory dreams,

00:22:30
and I can say that often

00:22:32
dreams like that involve a

00:22:35
loved one who gives us that information.

00:22:37
That we need to go to the doctor, you know,

00:22:39
that there's a mass in the

00:22:40
breast or what have you.

00:22:42
So it's not just kind of

00:22:43
wishful thinking about, oh,

00:22:45
I wish I could reconnect with them.

00:22:46
But often they come to us

00:22:48
with useful life important

00:22:50
information like, you know,

00:22:51
medical data that says get

00:22:53
this particular thing checked out.

00:22:56
So the more we develop this

00:22:58
relationship with kind of our higher soul,

00:23:00
as I like to put it,

00:23:02
and I promise you these

00:23:03
differential frequency

00:23:04
brainwave entrainment of sacred acoustics,

00:23:06
people can learn more at

00:23:08
sacredacoustics.com,

00:23:09
but it's an incredibly

00:23:11
powerful way of kind of

00:23:12
letting that ego voice make a request,

00:23:16
ask a question.

00:23:17
But then at the beginning of

00:23:18
the meditation,

00:23:19
the ego voice just goes

00:23:20
into timeout as I've

00:23:21
learned to ride the tones,

00:23:23
coast with those tones.

00:23:25
And what they seem to be

00:23:27
doing is by creating an

00:23:29
oscillation in the lower brainstem.

00:23:31
And that's what the binaural

00:23:33
beats are doing.

00:23:33
It's a phenomenon that's

00:23:34
been described for almost

00:23:35
200 years where a pure tone

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in one ear and a slightly

00:23:39
different pure tone in the other ear

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gives a strong signal that's

00:23:43
equal to the arithmetic

00:23:45
difference between the two.

00:23:46
So if I put a 100 hertz tone

00:23:48
in one ear and 104 hertz in the other ear,

00:23:51
I'll get a four hertz wavering signal.

00:23:55
And that is what I've

00:23:57
learned to ride and just

00:23:59
kind of blank my little ego mind,

00:24:01
but let that kind of

00:24:03
connection with higher mind.

00:24:04
Basically,

00:24:05
you're trying to get into a

00:24:06
hypnagogic space.

00:24:08
That is like the space

00:24:09
between awake and asleep.

00:24:11
And we know, you know,

00:24:13
from long experience,

00:24:14
various inventors have used

00:24:16
techniques of getting into

00:24:17
that hypnagogic space when

00:24:19
they had a deep question to answer.

00:24:22
Like Thomas Edison,

00:24:23
one of the greatest inventors.

00:24:24
He was kind of a lead at

00:24:26
General Electric in the

00:24:27
early days with hundreds of patents.

00:24:30
And he used to drift off to

00:24:31
sleep with weights in his

00:24:32
hands and they'd wake him

00:24:34
up as soon as he started to fall asleep.

00:24:36
But just by getting those

00:24:37
few seconds of micro naps

00:24:39
of hypnagogia between awake and asleep,

00:24:42
all of a sudden you have

00:24:42
these creative ideas.

00:24:44
And he learned to really use

00:24:46
that creativity,

00:24:47
use that hypnagogic space.

00:24:49
And sacred acoustics is a

00:24:50
beautiful way to start to

00:24:52
practice a way of getting

00:24:54
into that hypnagogic space,

00:24:56
which is really an overlap

00:24:58
of your mind with the mind

00:24:59
of the universe.

00:25:00
So a great source of creativity,

00:25:03
of insight, of understanding,

00:25:05
of spiritual guidance,

00:25:07
connecting with souls of

00:25:08
departed loved ones.

00:25:09
All these kinds of things

00:25:10
can happen in that hypnagogic space.

00:25:12
And sacredacoustics.com,

00:25:14
binaural beat brainwave entrainment,

00:25:16
is an incredibly powerful

00:25:18
and effective way for you

00:25:20
to turn off the little ego

00:25:21
mind that little chatterbox

00:25:23
monkey mind in the head and

00:25:25
start really pursuing your

00:25:26
higher soul and that

00:25:27
grander wisdom that comes

00:25:29
from connecting with

00:25:30
primordial mind and these

00:25:32
are all concepts that we

00:25:33
cover in detail for both

00:25:35
practical and theoretical

00:25:37
implications in the book

00:25:38
living in a mindful universe

00:25:41
you mentioned ego and I was

00:25:44
just talking to kelly this

00:25:45
weekend about ego and she

00:25:47
has something phenomenal I

00:25:49
want you to tell him what

00:25:51
you say about ego kelly um

00:25:54
I i always say I'm I'm not

00:25:56
really sure the origins of

00:25:58
this I feel like um I met

00:26:00
wayne dyer about 10 years

00:26:01
ago and I feel like it may

00:26:02
have come from him um but I

00:26:05
always call ego edging god and you know

00:26:10
And you lose the perspective

00:26:13
when you let ego come into

00:26:15
that conversation, you know,

00:26:17
when you're living your life.

00:26:18
And if you just move that out of the way,

00:26:21
you open yourself up to the

00:26:23
magic that is all around us that,

00:26:26
you know, sometimes we just fail to see.

00:26:29
Well, that is a very important point.

00:26:31
I'm so glad you made that.

00:26:33
You know, in my journey,

00:26:35
people who've read the book

00:26:36
Proof of Heaven will realize,

00:26:38
first of all,

00:26:38
that it was amnesia was an

00:26:40
unusual ingredient of my NDE.

00:26:42
In fact,

00:26:42
I've never heard of amnesia being

00:26:44
that big a part of

00:26:45
someone's near-death experience.

00:26:47
But for me,

00:26:48
I had no knowledge of Eben

00:26:49
Alexander's life, no knowledge of humans,

00:26:51
Earth, this universe.

00:26:52
It really was an empty slate.

00:26:54
And what I've discovered is

00:26:56
that NDEs are always

00:26:58
tailored for the individual

00:26:59
that has them.

00:27:00
They really have no other purpose.

00:27:02
But when you study them en masse,

00:27:04
we study big numbers of NDEs,

00:27:06
we find a lot of commonalities.

00:27:09
But in mine,

00:27:09
it was unusual to have that amnesia,

00:27:11
but it allowed for an

00:27:12
extraordinary lesson for

00:27:14
someone interested in neuroscience,

00:27:16
phenomena of memory and

00:27:17
consciousness to go through

00:27:19
this because it really

00:27:21
defied most of my

00:27:22
materialist preconceptions

00:27:24
about it all and truly

00:27:25
opened me to a far grander

00:27:28
kind of vision of,

00:27:29
of what this could all mean

00:27:30
and where it was headed.

00:27:31
Um, but the, uh,

00:27:34
The amnesia allowed me to go

00:27:36
into these many different levels.

00:27:37
And I started in what I call

00:27:38
the earth or my view

00:27:39
primitive course on responsive,

00:27:41
but then through a musical

00:27:42
melody of light,

00:27:44
a light portal was led up

00:27:45
into this brilliant ultra

00:27:47
real gateway Valley.

00:27:48
Now that of course would be

00:27:49
where life reviews would happen.

00:27:51
that kind of area.

00:27:53
That's where I had that

00:27:54
beautiful guardian angel on

00:27:55
the butterfly wing and this

00:27:56
incredible beauty down below,

00:27:58
kind of a world of perfection.

00:28:00
There was no death or decay at all.

00:28:02
And yet that was not the end

00:28:03
point of my journey.

00:28:04
And there was a beautiful

00:28:05
message from that spiritual

00:28:07
guide on the butterfly wing.

00:28:08
And of course,

00:28:09
it was a discovery of her

00:28:10
identity four months after my coma.

00:28:12
that drove home the reality

00:28:14
of the experience.

00:28:15
But importantly,

00:28:16
that was only a stepping

00:28:18
stone in my journey because

00:28:19
the angelic choirs that

00:28:21
created such a sense of

00:28:22
ultra reality in that

00:28:24
gateway valley provided yet

00:28:26
another light portal to

00:28:27
higher and higher levels.

00:28:29
And I saw all of

00:28:29
four-dimensional space-time

00:28:31
collapsing down, all of that deep,

00:28:34
ultra-reality of what I call

00:28:37
the gateway valley, that spiritual realm,

00:28:39
collapsing down until all I

00:28:41
had was this complex

00:28:43
oversphere that was

00:28:44
basically the entire

00:28:45
universe throughout all of eternity.

00:28:47
And I was then in this core,

00:28:48
as I called it,

00:28:49
and the core was a complete oneness.

00:28:52
All dualities come into oneness.

00:28:53
We live in a world of

00:28:55
dualities where you have masculine,

00:28:57
feminine,

00:28:57
dark, light, good, evil, et cetera,

00:28:59
et cetera,

00:29:00
all these spectra of ranges of things.

00:29:02
But in that core realm,

00:29:04
it all came together into oneness.

00:29:05
And not only that,

00:29:07
I recognize that the very

00:29:08
source of my conscious

00:29:09
awareness was that pure God

00:29:12
force of pure love.

00:29:13
And that's why NDEs are so comforting.

00:29:16
That's why more than 90% of

00:29:18
people who have had an NDE

00:29:21
across all cultures and belief systems,

00:29:23
and this includes a lot of

00:29:24
people who were previously

00:29:25
atheist or agnostic,

00:29:27
More than 90% of them come

00:29:29
back knowing in the reality of a loving,

00:29:32
personal,

00:29:33
responsible intelligence at the

00:29:35
core of the universe.

00:29:37
And what I came to realize

00:29:38
is it doesn't matter if you

00:29:39
want to call that force God or Allah,

00:29:42
Brahman, Vishnu, Jehovah, Yahweh,

00:29:44
Great Spirit.

00:29:45
These are all names of

00:29:46
humans trying to claim it.

00:29:48
But the deeper reality is

00:29:50
we're all talking about the

00:29:51
same infinitely loving, merciful force

00:29:55
kind, focused,

00:29:58
unconditionally loving

00:29:59
presence of a God force.

00:30:01
And that is what brings such comfort.

00:30:04
But to me,

00:30:05
the important thing is that that

00:30:07
was really the source of my

00:30:09
conscious awareness.

00:30:09
So none of us are ever

00:30:11
separate in any way from that God force.

00:30:15
It's always there in a very powerful form.

00:30:17
right in the core of our awareness.

00:30:19
But it helps to traverse

00:30:21
that veil that connects us

00:30:23
to the spiritual realm so

00:30:25
that we are more into that oneness.

00:30:27
And this is where centering

00:30:29
prayer and deep meditation

00:30:31
can help any and all of us

00:30:33
to get to the same kind of

00:30:34
knowing and knowledge.

00:30:35
You don't have to have an NDE.

00:30:37
It certainly helps to have

00:30:39
one as a touch point,

00:30:41
but to even hear about NDEs

00:30:43
is a great catalyst to help

00:30:44
all the rest of us

00:30:46
grow into this deeper spiritual truth.

00:30:49
But we have the tools as a

00:30:50
conscious sentient being to

00:30:53
explore consciousness

00:30:54
through meditation and centering prayer.

00:30:56
And that's where you start

00:30:57
to discover that it's far

00:30:59
grander than this little ego focused,

00:31:02
you know, conscious awareness.

00:31:04
It's only in the here and now in this body,

00:31:06
but far grander than that.

00:31:08
And that's where I think

00:31:10
it's so important for all

00:31:11
of us to reject that bleak

00:31:14
and paltry fiction and materialism.

00:31:16
that we're isolated

00:31:18
individual sentient beings

00:31:19
with no connection to the

00:31:21
universe and to each other.

00:31:23
And of course,

00:31:23
this notion of spirituality

00:31:25
also greatly encompasses

00:31:27
the animal and plant kingdom.

00:31:29
So don't think that animals

00:31:31
don't have a rich kind of

00:31:32
spiritual existence.

00:31:33
I've heard many a story of

00:31:35
people who are pet lovers

00:31:37
who encounter their pets in

00:31:39
beautiful ways in near-death experiences.

00:31:42
In fact,

00:31:43
it's really as humans with our

00:31:44
little ego mind,

00:31:45
that linguistic brain that

00:31:47
we're led away from some of

00:31:49
these spiritual truths that

00:31:50
I think can be kind of

00:31:51
obvious to animals.

00:31:52
And that's why that whole

00:31:53
predator prey dance of

00:31:56
animals eating animals is

00:31:57
not as painful and horrific

00:31:59
as we might think is

00:32:00
because the animals are

00:32:01
used to the fact that they

00:32:04
have a continuity of life,

00:32:05
that they come back again and again.

00:32:07
And this is something humans can realize,

00:32:09
not just through NDEs,

00:32:11
But for example,

00:32:12
through the work of Christopher Kerr,

00:32:14
a hospice and palliative

00:32:16
care doc in Buffalo, New York,

00:32:18
who wrote a beautiful book

00:32:19
about five years ago called

00:32:21
Death is But a Dream.

00:32:22
And he doesn't study NDEs at all.

00:32:25
What he studies are people

00:32:26
who are actually dying.

00:32:28
And what he finds is exactly

00:32:30
the same things happen.

00:32:31
And they have elements of

00:32:33
life review even in the

00:32:34
weeks before they die.

00:32:35
They have kind of a

00:32:36
prolonged death and not a sudden death.

00:32:39
They go through dreams and

00:32:40
visions where they reunite

00:32:42
with souls who have left the world.

00:32:44
And they go through resolution.

00:32:46
to where they make amends and, you know,

00:32:49
apologies and express love

00:32:52
and compassion and kindness,

00:32:54
just like we often describe

00:32:56
in NDEs and life reviews.

00:32:58
But this is something that's

00:32:59
a natural part of hospice

00:33:01
and terminal care.

00:33:02
So it's really part of the

00:33:03
human condition.

00:33:05
And it shows us, you know,

00:33:07
we are eternal spiritual beings.

00:33:09
And this is a scientifically

00:33:11
validated truth.

00:33:13
And we're just getting more

00:33:14
and more to a point where

00:33:15
we have theoretical models.

00:33:17
The philosophical position

00:33:19
that I currently think is

00:33:20
most on point is called

00:33:22
evolutionary panentheism.

00:33:24
Panentheism basically means that God force,

00:33:27
that one mind of love is

00:33:30
through all of us and it's

00:33:31
what generates the emerging

00:33:32
physical universe.

00:33:34
Evolutionary means there's

00:33:35
truly free will and quantum

00:33:37
indeterminacy from the

00:33:39
world of quantum physics is

00:33:40
what opens the door to actual free will.

00:33:43
Even though I think there

00:33:44
are fascinating discussions

00:33:46
about how much is determined by

00:33:48
you know,

00:33:49
and how much is due to our

00:33:51
choices as sentient beings

00:33:53
in determining our emergent worldview.

00:33:55
And I think there's a lot of

00:33:56
evidence for free will

00:33:58
playing a tremendous role

00:34:00
in our emerging reality.

00:34:01
And it's not just a deterministic universe,

00:34:04
which is what a lot of

00:34:05
those materialists falsely believe.

00:34:08
I love that.

00:34:09
It's so poignant.

00:34:10
And you're talking about the

00:34:12
golden rule of

00:34:14
Not just our life reviews,

00:34:16
but our daily reviews, right?

00:34:18
The impact that we're creating.

00:34:20
And Kelly talks a lot about

00:34:22
the ripple effect.

00:34:24
So powerful.

00:34:25
But, you know,

00:34:26
I can't help but think you

00:34:28
come from the scientific background.

00:34:31
You know, in my work,

00:34:33
I work with a lot of people

00:34:34
that are trying to share their story.

00:34:37
Maybe they're afraid of criticism.

00:34:40
Maybe they're afraid of rejection.

00:34:44
That their peers,

00:34:45
their colleagues are going to judge.

00:34:50
I can't imagine this was

00:34:52
easy for you being from the scientific,

00:34:55
this neurosurgeon background,

00:34:56
deeply scientific.

00:34:58
I'm out with this.

00:35:00
Can you talk to us a little

00:35:01
bit about that?

00:35:02
Well, you know, ultimately,

00:35:04
at the end of the day,

00:35:05
you have to explain this

00:35:06
extraordinary recovery.

00:35:07
I mean,

00:35:08
that's what the peer review editors

00:35:11
of the Journal of Nervous

00:35:12
and Mental Diseases

00:35:13
challenged the three

00:35:14
authors who wrote the case

00:35:15
report on My Medical Records.

00:35:17
How do you explain it?

00:35:18
This is unprecedented in the

00:35:20
medical literature.

00:35:21
And they said it's because

00:35:22
he had a near-death experience.

00:35:24
That is the explanation.

00:35:26
It's simply scientific

00:35:28
acceptance of the reality

00:35:30
of this kind of miraculous healing.

00:35:32
Now, you know,

00:35:33
interesting that in medicine,

00:35:35
we look back over the last

00:35:37
seven or eight decades and

00:35:38
we've been using placebo

00:35:39
effect as the great gold

00:35:42
standard for medical control trials.

00:35:46
And placebo effect is much

00:35:47
more than just a sugar pill

00:35:49
fixing a headache.

00:35:51
Placebo effect is an extraordinary tool

00:35:54
demonstration of the power

00:35:56
of human belief and will to

00:35:59
influence our emerging reality.

00:36:01
And if you go beyond, uh, you know,

00:36:03
just placebo effect and it's, uh, um,

00:36:07
kind of beautiful example of

00:36:09
how somebody believing

00:36:10
they're doing something to

00:36:11
make them better can make

00:36:12
them much better.

00:36:14
And then you can work your

00:36:16
way into the world of

00:36:18
spontaneous remission of diseases.

00:36:20
For example, if you go to noetic.org,

00:36:23
Institute of Noetic's website,

00:36:24
you'll find,

00:36:25
put in the search term

00:36:26
spontaneous remission,

00:36:28
you'll find a book that

00:36:29
they published in the mid 1990s.

00:36:30
It was by, I think it's,

00:36:35
Hirschberg and O'Reilly or

00:36:36
something like that.

00:36:37
I might have the names wrong,

00:36:39
but if you do that search,

00:36:40
you can find it on the Noetic website.

00:36:42
And they studied more than

00:36:43
3 cases of advanced cancers,

00:36:47
advanced infections, what have you,

00:36:49
where people had exhausted

00:36:51
all the modern medical

00:36:53
techniques available and

00:36:55
were left with a disease

00:36:56
that was out of control.

00:36:58
And in those 3 plus cases,

00:37:00
through prayer, meditation,

00:37:03
through adopting a more

00:37:05
kind of spiritual lifestyle,

00:37:08
taking charge of their own health,

00:37:11
sometimes changing their diet,

00:37:12
things like that,

00:37:13
you start to find this

00:37:15
tremendous capacity for

00:37:17
spontaneous remission of diseases.

00:37:19
In fact,

00:37:21
There's a beautiful book,

00:37:23
it's called Radical Remission,

00:37:25
where I think Kelly Turner wrote that.

00:37:28
And she took more than a

00:37:29
thousand cases from that

00:37:31
noetics sciences database

00:37:34
that were all cancer.

00:37:35
And she found the features

00:37:37
that allowed them to

00:37:38
overcome their cancer

00:37:39
beyond any medical intervention.

00:37:41
And six of the nine features

00:37:43
she identified were mainly spiritual.

00:37:46
you know,

00:37:46
taking a spiritual approach to life,

00:37:48
et cetera.

00:37:48
But this is just showing us

00:37:50
the power that we have with

00:37:52
mind over matter and

00:37:53
admitting to the spiritual

00:37:55
realities that are revealed

00:37:57
by these kinds of cases.

00:37:58
And when you move placebo effect,

00:38:01
spontaneous remission,

00:38:02
you then get to these

00:38:03
extraordinary cases of

00:38:04
healing and near death

00:38:06
experiences that completely

00:38:08
defies Western medical expectations.

00:38:12
And that's where we really

00:38:13
just have to start taking seriously.

00:38:15
that our free will and our

00:38:16
kind of spiritual identity

00:38:19
can actually drive the bus

00:38:21
and actually influence our healing.

00:38:24
And it turns out, of course,

00:38:25
none of us are meant to live forever.

00:38:27
So we're all meant to leave

00:38:29
this physical body in some way or form.

00:38:32
But in prayer and meditation,

00:38:34
we can seek that highest road.

00:38:36
And what I have found is the

00:38:38
more we're adopting this

00:38:40
beautiful sense of love, compassion,

00:38:43
kindness, mercy, acceptance,

00:38:45
gratitude for self,

00:38:46
and then serving as a

00:38:47
conduit to share that out

00:38:49
to our fellow beings,

00:38:51
That kind of thing, you know,

00:38:52
you give love out to the

00:38:53
world and the love gives

00:38:55
you love and healing back.

00:38:57
And so that is what I think

00:38:58
is most important about

00:38:59
this is all of this talk of

00:39:01
consciousness and free will.

00:39:04
ultimately hinges on that

00:39:06
beautiful power of love,

00:39:10
binding force of love,

00:39:11
which is tremendously

00:39:12
healing to near-death experiencers.

00:39:15
And that's why it's so

00:39:16
important to share these stories.

00:39:18
And you had talked about how

00:39:21
many people don't share

00:39:22
these stories because they

00:39:23
think people think they're crazy.

00:39:25
And that's one of the

00:39:26
reasons why I wrote the

00:39:27
book Proof of Heaven,

00:39:28
and I wrote it as a scientist,

00:39:30
and it has a big

00:39:31
bibliography full of

00:39:32
scientific papers and books.

00:39:34
That's why if you go to ebanalexander.com,

00:39:37
to my website,

00:39:38
you'll find a recommended

00:39:39
reading list that has a lot

00:39:41
of scientific papers and

00:39:43
books referenced in it.

00:39:44
They're all categorized.

00:39:46
Some of them are hot links

00:39:47
to the actual scientific paper,

00:39:50
and that recommended reading list will be

00:39:52
get you way on your way in

00:39:54
terms of coming to a deeper

00:39:55
understanding of all of

00:39:57
this but it's all supported

00:39:58
by science you know the

00:40:01
religious community has had

00:40:02
more than 5 000 years to

00:40:04
try and teach us the golden

00:40:06
rule that love is built

00:40:07
into the fabric of this

00:40:08
universe and now ultimately

00:40:10
it looks like it's going to

00:40:11
be science quantum physics

00:40:13
and the serious

00:40:14
investigation these kind of phenomena

00:40:17
including, you know,

00:40:18
investigation of telepathy,

00:40:20
mind over matter, psychokinesis,

00:40:23
remote viewing,

00:40:24
all of these kind of

00:40:24
extraordinary phenomena of

00:40:26
consciousness that some

00:40:27
people have very powerfully,

00:40:29
but other people, you know,

00:40:31
and a lot of this is your beliefs.

00:40:33
Be careful what you believe.

00:40:35
Because if you believe this

00:40:36
is all nonsense,

00:40:37
you'll never be able to

00:40:38
discover it in yourself

00:40:39
unless you get knocked in

00:40:40
the head with a soul who's

00:40:42
passed who wants to knock

00:40:44
some sense into you.

00:40:45
And that's where after-death

00:40:46
communications are so important.

00:40:49
But ultimately, our beliefs,

00:40:51
most of our societal

00:40:52
beliefs in our modern

00:40:53
culture are falsely limiting.

00:40:56
And that's where it's so

00:40:57
important to open our minds

00:40:59
to these grander

00:41:00
possibilities and

00:41:01
ultimately to realize that, you know,

00:41:04
ego toxicity is not your friend.

00:41:08
I will point out as a

00:41:09
physician that alcoholism, addiction,

00:41:12
drug addiction,

00:41:12
and also addiction to things, sex, love,

00:41:15
work, exercise.

00:41:17
People can be addicted to a lot of things.

00:41:19
And ultimately addictions

00:41:22
are where whatever this hyper focus is,

00:41:25
it ends up kind of wrecking

00:41:26
other parts of your life.

00:41:28
And addiction is ultimately

00:41:30
an ego disease.

00:41:32
And this is where, you know,

00:41:35
turning it over to a higher power,

00:41:37
like an AA programs that

00:41:38
I'm familiar with from

00:41:39
stopping alcohol back in 1991.

00:41:41
You know,

00:41:42
it was never a problem for me at work,

00:41:44
but it was something that

00:41:45
on my nights off call,

00:41:47
I leaned a little too

00:41:47
heavily on that scotch.

00:41:49
And I know a lot of people

00:41:50
out there have addiction problems.

00:41:52
And that's why I share that

00:41:54
that was part of my issue.

00:41:56
Also that I was adopted.

00:41:57
It's a giant part of my story.

00:41:59
If you read proof of heaven, uh, in fact,

00:42:02
uh,

00:42:03
It was only meeting my birth

00:42:04
family a year before my

00:42:06
coma that helped me when I

00:42:08
received a picture in the

00:42:09
mail four months after my

00:42:10
coma from that birth family

00:42:12
to finally connect the dots and go, oh,

00:42:15
my God, it actually happened.

00:42:17
You know,

00:42:18
identify that beautiful guardian

00:42:20
angel on the butterfly wing.

00:42:21
All these pieces are important.

00:42:23
Because my adoption history

00:42:25
is one of being put up for

00:42:26
adoption at age 11 days.

00:42:28
My birth mother was an unwed 16-year-old.

00:42:32
And as far as I ever knew,

00:42:33
my birth parents got

00:42:34
separated in those moments.

00:42:36
That was the end.

00:42:37
They never got together.

00:42:38
And then I found out in the year 2000.

00:42:41
that they had gotten together,

00:42:42
they got married and had three children,

00:42:44
but that one of those

00:42:45
children had already died,

00:42:46
that my younger sister had passed over.

00:42:49
And all that's a huge part

00:42:50
of the story in Proof of Heaven.

00:42:51
I won't dwell on it now,

00:42:53
but important to point out

00:42:55
that with my history of the

00:42:58
alcoholism and successfully

00:43:01
rising above it,

00:43:02
and also the adoption wound,

00:43:04
abandonment wound,

00:43:05
I think even though for

00:43:06
many people who are not adopted,

00:43:09
We all have kind of a

00:43:11
separation from spirit

00:43:12
wound that comes in our

00:43:15
modern culture with its

00:43:16
focus on materialism and

00:43:19
it's a kind of denial of

00:43:20
our spiritual reality.

00:43:22
And this is where waking up

00:43:24
to the scientifically

00:43:26
validated reality of spirituality,

00:43:28
that we're spiritual beings

00:43:29
that are interconnected,

00:43:31
reincarnation is a giant

00:43:33
part of the picture.

00:43:33
You know,

00:43:34
this is not just the visions

00:43:36
people have in NDEs,

00:43:38
but if you go to uvadops.org,

00:43:40
that's the University of

00:43:41
Virginia Division of Perceptual Studies,

00:43:44
and start looking at their

00:43:44
scientific papers,

00:43:45
you'll find they've studied

00:43:46
more than 2 cases of

00:43:49
past life memories in

00:43:50
children suggestive of reincarnation.

00:43:54
And of those 2 cases,

00:43:55
more than 1 have been

00:43:56
solved over six decades.

00:44:00
That is,

00:44:01
solved means they found the person

00:44:03
who lived before that the

00:44:04
child is describing.

00:44:06
Often the child gives names

00:44:08
of very specific details

00:44:09
about how they died in the previous life.

00:44:11
In fact,

00:44:12
a third of Ian Stevenson's

00:44:14
original cases in that database,

00:44:16
a third of them had birth

00:44:17
defects and kind of limb

00:44:20
abnormalities that were

00:44:22
related to the mode of

00:44:23
death in the prior incarnation.

00:44:26
If that doesn't get your attention,

00:44:27
I don't know what will.

00:44:29
But the bottom line is, you know,

00:44:31
our materialist thought

00:44:32
that the brain creates

00:44:33
consciousness and at bodily death,

00:44:35
our awareness ceases to

00:44:37
exist is completely false

00:44:39
and not supported by all

00:44:41
the scientific evidence.

00:44:43
And for those who worry a

00:44:44
bit about reincarnation,

00:44:45
I can tell you it's still

00:44:47
the goal of love, kindness,

00:44:49
and compassion.

00:44:50
It's just that it takes more

00:44:51
than one lifetime for us to

00:44:53
work towards that oneness

00:44:54
with the divine and that

00:44:56
sense of universal love.

00:44:57
But it's always still the same.

00:45:00
NDEs are clear on this point.

00:45:02
There's a beautiful book by

00:45:03
a friend of mine, Robert Coppes,

00:45:05
C-O-P-P-E-S, from the Netherlands.

00:45:07
He's very familiar with

00:45:08
near-death experiences.

00:45:10
He wrote a book called The

00:45:11
Essence of Religions,

00:45:12
where he compares the top

00:45:14
main five religions in the world today,

00:45:17
Abrahamic faiths of Judaism, Christianity,

00:45:20
and Islam, as well as Hinduism, Buddhism,

00:45:23
and basically the gold

00:45:24
standard is near-death experiences.

00:45:26
And he kind of says how each

00:45:28
of those approaches the

00:45:29
beauty of near-death

00:45:31
experiences and their focus

00:45:32
on life reviews and the

00:45:34
golden rule being written

00:45:35
into the fabric of the universe.

00:45:36
But none of them gets it perfectly right.

00:45:39
This is why we shouldn't be

00:45:41
so consumed by religious ideologies.

00:45:44
We should focus more on

00:45:46
prayer and meditation and

00:45:48
what is revealed to us in

00:45:50
these deep states of exploration,

00:45:52
and especially through

00:45:53
spontaneous cases of

00:45:54
near-death experiences, shared death,

00:45:56
which are just like

00:45:57
near-death but happen in

00:45:57
perfectly healthy people.

00:45:59
They might be loved ones a

00:46:00
thousand miles away,

00:46:02
but the departing soul will

00:46:03
grab their soul on the way out,

00:46:05
even to the point of seeing

00:46:06
a full-blown life review.

00:46:08
before the bystander soul

00:46:10
comes back to this world.

00:46:12
So all of this points to a

00:46:14
much grander reality.

00:46:16
We're trying to open the

00:46:17
door so people will share

00:46:18
these stories much more widely.

00:46:21
You can go to IANDS.org,

00:46:23
International Association

00:46:25
of Near-Death Studies.org,

00:46:26
to see thousands and

00:46:27
thousands of commonly

00:46:29
reported NDE cases and similar cases.

00:46:32
Also, NDERF.org,

00:46:35
an excellent source run by...

00:46:39
Jody and Jeff Long, he's a physician,

00:46:42
radiation oncologist,

00:46:43
who's now in Kentucky.

00:46:45
NDERF.org is their website.

00:46:48
Many,

00:46:48
many NDEs reported there and a lot of

00:46:51
information for the public about NDEs.

00:46:55
But these are really waking

00:46:56
the scientific community

00:46:58
and our culture at large

00:47:00
up to the absolute

00:47:02
undeniable reality of our

00:47:04
spiritual essence, our interconnection,

00:47:07
the binding force of love

00:47:08
and the spiritual nature of the universe.

00:47:11
Kelly, I would love to hear your thoughts.

00:47:17
I know me too.

00:47:18
So I just have to tell you, so I,

00:47:21
I am a registered nurse.

00:47:23
I come from a nursing background and, um,

00:47:27
Everything that you've said,

00:47:29
just based on my own

00:47:31
professional experience and

00:47:32
then personal experience with law,

00:47:37
I don't even really,

00:47:38
I'm at a loss for words,

00:47:39
but I want to just read the

00:47:41
quote that I read this

00:47:42
morning as I was preparing

00:47:44
to talk to you.

00:47:45
It's from Nikola Tesla.

00:47:47
The day that science begins

00:47:49
to study non-physical phenomena,

00:47:51
it will make more progress in one decade

00:47:55
than in all the previous

00:47:56
centuries of existence.

00:47:59
So as a registered nurse,

00:48:02
I recall sitting by

00:48:04
patients' beds as they were

00:48:06
getting ready to pack and

00:48:07
staying with them.

00:48:09
Primarily,

00:48:09
my areas of focus were intensive care,

00:48:12
emergency room nursing,

00:48:14
and oncology nursing.

00:48:16
So the spectrum of loss, I think,

00:48:18
prepared me for the journey

00:48:20
that I'm on now.

00:48:22
There was just things that I

00:48:23
could not explain.

00:48:25
as people who are counseling.

00:48:26
There was things that I

00:48:28
could not explain about a

00:48:30
person's recovery in an

00:48:32
oncology setting that had a

00:48:34
very poor prognosis,

00:48:36
but their mindset was

00:48:38
completely different from a

00:48:40
patient who had the same problems.

00:48:42
And so put those two

00:48:44
patients together from the

00:48:45
person who had the mindset

00:48:47
and who was meditating.

00:48:49
and focused on feeling that

00:48:51
they're outgrown as well.

00:48:53
And I never really had, like,

00:48:55
I wasn't doing a professional study.

00:48:56
So it was just all the

00:48:57
observations that I made

00:48:59
through the year.

00:49:00
And I'm just at a loss

00:49:04
because everything that

00:49:06
you've said is just so validating for,

00:49:09
and I'm sure for so many

00:49:11
other registered nurses out there,

00:49:12
because, you know, in my community,

00:49:14
I've met with so many of them and

00:49:16
We all have those questions

00:49:18
and we see what is happening.

00:49:20
And I'm glad that we're

00:49:22
having this conversation

00:49:24
finally as part of what

00:49:26
makes up our feeling.

00:49:30
Thank you, Kelly,

00:49:31
for sharing every bit of that.

00:49:32
And I will tell you that many,

00:49:35
many times in my talks over

00:49:36
the last 15 years since this experience,

00:49:40
I credit the nurses with

00:49:41
getting it because I had

00:49:43
many nurse friends,

00:49:44
very dear friends of mine

00:49:46
who I worked with,

00:49:47
who would tell me these

00:49:48
kinds of incredible stories

00:49:51
that suggested a richness

00:49:53
of spirituality and of the

00:49:55
power of spirit to influence healing.

00:49:58
And, you know,

00:50:00
I was such a hardcore kind of,

00:50:02
I want to be able to measure it,

00:50:04
materialist mind.

00:50:06
that I wasn't paying

00:50:07
attention to what they were

00:50:08
telling me but you're

00:50:09
absolutely right and I

00:50:10
would say uh nurses are

00:50:12
more commonly present uh

00:50:14
when people pass from this

00:50:16
world I think as physicians

00:50:17
sometimes maybe we feel

00:50:18
like we've failed our

00:50:19
patients if they're um you

00:50:21
know just about to die we

00:50:23
might might not be as

00:50:24
present maybe I'm just

00:50:25
speaking for myself um

00:50:27
But I think nurses have

00:50:29
figured this out a long

00:50:30
time ago because they keep

00:50:32
seeing this kind of evidence.

00:50:34
And, of course,

00:50:35
I have a few stories in my book,

00:50:36
Proof of Heaven,

00:50:37
of terminal lucidity and

00:50:42
that kind of thing,

00:50:43
and also of after-death

00:50:45
communications where –

00:50:47
you know,

00:50:47
families and nursing staff were

00:50:49
trying to share this stuff

00:50:50
with me to help me grow up

00:50:52
into a much more mature

00:50:54
view of the nature of reality.

00:50:56
And yet my hardcore

00:50:57
materialist preconceptions

00:50:59
and assumptions were

00:51:00
interfering with my

00:51:02
admitting to the obvious evidence.

00:51:04
And that's why I think it's

00:51:05
so important that the

00:51:06
scientific community is now

00:51:08
taking these cases very

00:51:09
seriously and studying them rigorously.

00:51:12
because then you start to

00:51:14
connect the dots in ways that are very,

00:51:16
very powerful and that have

00:51:19
huge implications for our understanding.

00:51:21
But the emerging reality is

00:51:23
absolutely one of shared

00:51:25
spirit where we're really

00:51:26
all bound together through

00:51:28
these forces of love and

00:51:30
that we're here to help

00:51:30
each other and to take care of the least,

00:51:33
the last and the lost.

00:51:35
We should be taking in

00:51:36
refugees as a nation, as individuals,

00:51:40
we need to help people.

00:51:42
And that's really a crucial

00:51:43
part of humanity's survival,

00:51:46
is denying that kind of

00:51:48
paltry fiction of the false

00:51:50
sense of separation and

00:51:51
that he who gets the most

00:51:54
toys before they die wins,

00:51:55
that kind of materialist nonsense,

00:51:58
and start working towards

00:52:00
the deeper spiritual

00:52:01
reality pointed out by

00:52:02
these kind of stories,

00:52:04
these kind of experiences,

00:52:05
and the scientific validation of them.

00:52:08
that helps us get to a point

00:52:10
of recognizing these deeper

00:52:12
spiritual truths and notions of oneness.

00:52:14
And so doing all this can

00:52:16
help us not only as a society,

00:52:19
as these stories are more

00:52:20
widely shared as scientists,

00:52:23
and I can give two websites

00:52:24
of scientists who are

00:52:26
deeply into this

00:52:26
understanding for your viewers.

00:52:28
Go to scientificandmedical.net.

00:52:32
or go to Galileocommission.org,

00:52:35
and you'll find two groups.

00:52:36
I'm on the scientific

00:52:37
advisory board for both groups.

00:52:40
But you'll find that

00:52:42
entertaining quantum physics,

00:52:43
parapsychology,

00:52:45
all this evidence for

00:52:46
non-local consciousness,

00:52:48
all of these stories of human experience,

00:52:51
reincarnation, NDEs, et cetera,

00:52:54
we're painting a much

00:52:55
bigger picture of reality

00:52:57
than in many ways is

00:52:58
comforting and also offers

00:53:00
us the chance for free will

00:53:02
as individuals.

00:53:04
So yes,

00:53:04
it's important to share these

00:53:06
stories and these

00:53:07
theoretical models with the

00:53:08
world at large and books

00:53:10
like Living in a Mindful Universe,

00:53:11
but also incredibly

00:53:12
important for individual

00:53:13
souls to go through this journey.

00:53:15
And if you go to evanalexander.com,

00:53:17
you'll find that there's a

00:53:18
companion workbook to that

00:53:21
Living in a Mindful Universe.

00:53:22
This workbook is free.

00:53:24
It's a 33-day email campaign.

00:53:28
where if you leave your

00:53:30
first name and an email

00:53:31
address for the next 33 days,

00:53:33
each day you will get a key

00:53:34
concept from our book,

00:53:36
Living in a Mindful Universe.

00:53:38
And this is presented in a

00:53:40
community format so that

00:53:42
more than 12 people

00:53:44
have taken that course over

00:53:45
the last few years.

00:53:46
They leave their comments.

00:53:47
They help each other.

00:53:48
It's all right there at your

00:53:50
33-day journey into the

00:53:52
heart of consciousness,

00:53:53
which is right on the

00:53:54
welcome page at ebanalexander.com.

00:53:57
So anybody can jump on that

00:54:00
33-day journey and start

00:54:02
learning a lot more.

00:54:03
The other resource I'd like

00:54:05
to point out is a website

00:54:07
that was really Karen

00:54:09
Newell's brilliance.

00:54:11
My wife and the co-author of

00:54:14
Living in a Mindful Universe.

00:54:15
And that is called InnersanctumCenter.com.

00:54:18
That's I-N-N-E-R SanctumCenter.com.

00:54:22
And you'll find there many things.

00:54:25
For one,

00:54:25
we did more than 50 interviews

00:54:28
during the pandemic with

00:54:29
thought leaders around the

00:54:30
world on consciousness

00:54:31
studies and other experiencers.

00:54:34
All of those 50-some

00:54:35
interviews are available

00:54:37
for free at IntersanctumCenter.com.

00:54:40
Likewise,

00:54:40
there's a mental health

00:54:41
practitioner course.

00:54:42
This does have a cost associated,

00:54:44
but it's a very good course.

00:54:46
on spirituality and modern

00:54:47
mental health practice.

00:54:49
Karen and I did that course

00:54:50
with Dr. Anna Yousum.

00:54:53
She is a brilliant

00:54:54
psychiatrist from New York City.

00:54:55
She wrote a book called Fulfilled,

00:54:57
which I highly recommend.

00:54:59
And she did that mental

00:55:01
health practitioner course

00:55:02
with us to help people

00:55:04
mainly with anxiety and

00:55:06
with spiritual issues.

00:55:08
It turns out that Dr. Yousum

00:55:10
also wrote a peer-reviewed study,

00:55:16
a pilot study of sacredacoustics.com,

00:55:19
especially the whole mind

00:55:20
bundle at sacredacoustics.com,

00:55:23
where she found that over

00:55:25
two weeks of time,

00:55:26
her busy Manhattan practice

00:55:28
with a lot of anxious

00:55:29
patients showed a 26%

00:55:31
reduction in anxiety

00:55:33
symptoms just by listening

00:55:34
to Sacred Acoustics.

00:55:36
Whereas the control group

00:55:38
who got standard talk

00:55:40
therapy for anxiety only

00:55:41
had a 7% reduction over those two weeks.

00:55:44
So 26%,

00:55:46
just by listening to sacred

00:55:47
acoustics is very powerful.

00:55:49
And if you listen to sacred acoustics,

00:55:51
you'll see what I mean.

00:55:52
That whole mind bundle,

00:55:54
Karen put on sale at the

00:55:56
beginning of the pandemic.

00:55:57
That's when that Dr. Yousum's,

00:56:01
her pilot study came out in

00:56:03
January of 2020, I think it was.

00:56:06
right at the beginning of

00:56:06
the pandemic and uh that's

00:56:09
a journal of nervous and

00:56:10
mental disease uh so you

00:56:12
can learn a lot more about

00:56:13
it but uh that whole mind

00:56:14
bundle is still available

00:56:16
at a very discounted price

00:56:18
in fact I think karen knew

00:56:21
that of the anxiety of the

00:56:22
pandemic and the economic

00:56:24
collapse of the pandemic

00:56:25
would be so severe that she

00:56:27
left a free button

00:56:28
on the website at

00:56:29
sacredacoustics.com to give

00:56:31
that whole mind bundle to

00:56:32
people who needed it for

00:56:34
free out of her generosity to the world.

00:56:37
And I believe that is still there.

00:56:38
Of course,

00:56:38
we expect that people who have

00:56:40
financial means will pay

00:56:42
the discounted $19 to get

00:56:44
that whole mind bundle,

00:56:45
but you'll find it can be

00:56:46
incredibly important and powerful.

00:56:48
And then of course,

00:56:49
start exploring more of

00:56:50
Sacred Acoustics because

00:56:52
there is an unbelievable amount of power

00:56:55
to what these tones can do

00:56:57
to help people come into

00:56:58
their own self-healing.

00:57:00
Wow.

00:57:02
I have used binaural

00:57:07
meetings daily as I'm

00:57:09
writing and working and meditating.

00:57:12
And I can attest to the power of them.

00:57:15
It's just completely changed

00:57:17
my perspective.

00:57:18
It's my anxiety has left me.

00:57:21
It's amazing.

00:57:22
And

00:57:23
I also have worked with

00:57:25
transformational breath work, which is,

00:57:26
I'm just getting into that,

00:57:28
but that is such an

00:57:29
interesting field as well,

00:57:31
to connecting yourself to a

00:57:34
higher consciousness.

00:57:35
So all of these tools are so important.

00:57:38
I'm just thinking about the

00:57:39
length of my reading list

00:57:41
after chatting with you.

00:57:42
I've got a lot of work to do.

00:57:45
Well, it's all play.

00:57:46
I look at it as play.

00:57:47
This is fascinating stuff.

00:57:49
And the more you realize

00:57:50
that it heads to a much

00:57:51
more positive life and one

00:57:54
where you feel like you have

00:57:56
a true influence on your emerging reality.

00:58:00
I mean,

00:58:00
this is an incredible revolution

00:58:02
just in kind of human

00:58:03
thought and human abilities

00:58:05
and acknowledgement of our power.

00:58:07
I think within the next decade,

00:58:09
just as Tesla said in that

00:58:11
beautiful quote you read earlier,

00:58:13
science will discover far

00:58:15
more than we have in all

00:58:16
the centuries of our

00:58:17
existence as this kind of

00:58:19
knowledge of the power of

00:58:21
mind over matter expands

00:58:23
and as more and more people

00:58:24
explore their own potential.

00:58:27
Wow.

00:58:28
Oh, oh my gosh.

00:58:30
That was a mic drop moment.

00:58:31
Well, with that,

00:58:33
I want to just say thank you.

00:58:35
I'm very grateful for your

00:58:36
presence today for teaching us this.

00:58:39
I know I learned a lot.

00:58:40
I know our audiences has

00:58:42
learned a lot and there's

00:58:43
so much depth to the human soul folks,

00:58:46
so much infinite potential

00:58:48
within all of us.

00:58:49
And this just goes to show

00:58:51
us how much potential we truly have.

00:58:54
But most importantly,

00:58:55
I feel like how loved we actually are.

00:58:58
That is true.

00:58:59
It's all about love.

00:59:02
The more we can serve as a

00:59:03
conduit for that love and

00:59:05
bring it into this universe,

00:59:06
share it with our fellow beings,

00:59:08
the better off we all are.

00:59:10
Thank you so much for what

00:59:11
you do to get this out there.

00:59:13
Thank you, Evan.

00:59:15
And thank you for everyone who tuned in.

00:59:17
Don't forget to support each

00:59:19
of our podcasts and tune in

00:59:21
and share this with someone.

00:59:23
This is truly a life

00:59:24
changing and life-saving message.

00:59:27
So the more we share,

00:59:28
the better off we can all

00:59:30
be and help each other and

00:59:32
rise as a collective.

00:59:33
This is not just about helping ourselves,

00:59:36
but how we can ultimately

00:59:37
help each other.

00:59:38
So thank you so much, Evan.

00:59:40
Thank you, Kelly.

00:59:41
It was a pleasure today.

00:59:42
This was fun.

00:59:44
Great.

00:59:44
Thanks so much, both of you.

00:59:46
Thank you.

00:59:47
We will catch you on the next episode.

00:59:48
Take care.

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